Be open!

Wow it's been a long time since my last post eh?  Oh well, this one is about being open in relationships.  Why don't people REALLY talk anymore?  It used to be that being in a relationship meant everything, someone you disclosed... everything to.  Where is that magic?  Swallowed up in a black abyss that I like to call the friend zone, that's where it is.  Now I'm not saying that you shouldn't have friends while in a relationship, one must always have balance, but for hell sakes there are things that are meant to be kept between a man and a woman that love each other.  One of those things (in my opinion) complaints that one might have about the other.  And here again I'm not saying SOLEY between the two, but in the name of love and relationships, if you complain to friends, confront the person!  If you can't tell the person your with about something that you don't like about them, then what can you say for your relationship?  "We smile and kiss"?  UH UH!  If that's what you call a relationship then you are out of your fucking mind.  If you can't talk about anything in your relationship, from sex to laundry, then what the hell are you doing?  You ain't in a relationship, your in an IMAGE.  An IMAGE is a thing where everyone else has a significant other, so you think that you have to as well.  If this IS what you're in, get out now.  It's not worth your time to do stay in it.  Plus, there is another downside to the IMAGE: the friend zone.  The person you're with is probably being influenced by his/her friends, and is being prevented by this to take the relationship any further than it already is.  If your the person being swallowed by the friend zone, stop, look at yourself and don't be pathetic anymore.  If you're the person that's a victim: sorry buddy, you'll probably just have to ride it out.